Judy Rodman - All Things Vocal Blog: November 2020

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Sunday, November 22, 2020

Responsibilities of Successful Voices

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ou would have to have been living under a rock for quite a while not to notice the strident cacophony of discordant voices shredding the air these days. It makes us sad, angry, confused, worried, unsure of things we once took for granted. Best friends, close family members see reality through radically different lenses and source facts from different universes. This cognitive dissonance can feed a sense of insanity and hopelessness, but as I said in my prior post, it can also move us forward and shake things up for the good. 

I want to help by addressing the elephant in the room. I want to talk about the voices driving the conversation and the responsibilities of successful voices... including yours and mine.

What is a successful voice? 

It is simply a voice that is listened to. This can be the voice of someone who is ...
  • singing in front of thousands of audience members in an amphitheater,
  • talking on camera to all those watching their TV show or YouTube channel,
  • writing a song that will be heard publicly,
  • speaking in front of a boardroom, congregation or classroom,
  • singing or talking to a friend or a child,
  • posting on social media.
So if someone is listening to you, your voice is successful. How do you know someone's listening? They will respond or react (overtly, silently, psychologically, verbally, or with non-verbal body language) to your message. This makes you an influencer. I want to give you what I hope is a sobering thought: 

An influencer bears responsibility for the responses to their messages.  
In other words, what your voice sets in motion is something you started. For this post, I'm going to get quite real with a deep concern I have for vocal responsibility (or the lack thereof). I suggest we think twice (or maybe 100 times)

... before we speak, sing, or write 
... before believing or buying into what others speak, sing, or write 

The voice's WHY

The voice can be very, very powerful. It can heal, destroy, inspire, shut down, mislead, correct, change one mind, or redirect the trajectory of the whole world in tremendous ways, for better or worse. It's a slippery slope to unintended harm when we don't realize what is really driving us and our messages. If we want to be on the side of the angels, our voice's core 'why' needs to be consciously and intentionally about far more than money, fame, or power.

Geez, this sounds so enlightened, ethical, and logical, right? So why is the world full of voices with messages of hate, meanness, deception, gender bashing, cluelessness, and other-directed harm? I mean, have you heard certain songs that encourage murder? Rape? Suicide? Watched any polarizing political speeches spouting lies? Seen any senseless rioting and violence sabotage peaceful protests? Read any hateful social media comments and responses? Ever been the victim of an internet troll? Perhaps it would help to consider what's driving these voices of darkness and damage. 

Reasons for vocal malpractice:

  • Fear
When fear is the driver, the voice chooses messages that are self-serving, vengeful, depressing, even violent. Any of us can slip into this almost unaware. Fear of the unknown. Fear of the 'other'. Fear of not having enough. Fear of being hurt, of not being safe. Fear of not being loved, of not being considered valid or significant.
  • Greed
A healthy dose of competitiveness can make one strive to be and do better, but taken to the extreme can lead to a narcissistic self-serving life devoid of empathy for others. When the goal of what we do is to make as much money, gain as much fame or lord as much power over others as we can, our voices will be willing to deliver any kind of message it takes to accomplish that, no matter who or what it hurts. Turning people against each other is a time-honored strategy of the power-hungry demagogue who seeks to divide and conquer in a transactional end game of winner-take-all.
  • Misinformation
In the world of sound bytes and viral social media, it's incredibly easy to anchor our opinions on misinformation, and then to use our voices to unknowingly spread half-truths, hoaxes and lies. I am sorry to say that I've shared stories that I later found were totally fabricated. When we realize our mistake, we can try to send corrections (and we should), but just putting the false material out there can allow it to spread like a garden weed given sunlight and water.

Pros and cons of ways to try to be vocally responsible:

  • Research and sharing 
We need to be very careful to do our due diligence when it comes to sources we research for facts, and things we share AS facts. Some sources of information are toxic wells of lies, such as the conspiracy theorist Alex Jones. For fame, he spread the lie that the Sandy Hook massacre of elementary children was a hoax, and their parents were in on it. How cruel can a human being get? For me, that has poisoned the podcast/voice of Joe Rogan, who chose to illuminate Jone's voice by having him on as a guest. Rogan has tons of listeners. Rogan is responsible for airing the voices of his guests. This one permanently lost him my listening ear. I put Q-Anon conspiracists in the same toxic category. 

That said, we all need to look deeper than sources that just reinforce what we want to believe is true. The larger and more accurate truth is often found in the middle of several sources. Listening with an open mind to the 'other side' of a viewpoint can reinforce or change our views for the better. And as any good detective series will show, it's never a bad idea to change your mind when it's based on new evidence!
  • Ranting 
This is often a narcissistic sounding of a not-so-humble opinion. It might make one feel good to get it out, but if it does nothing to change anyone's mind it's best to write it down to get it out of your heart and then burn it. 

That said, sometimes a rant is just the thing to call attention to truly bad situations and behavior in a way that can change them.
  • Shaming 
Calling people out rarely does anything but drive them away from your viewpoint. Here's a great article about professor Loretta J Ross, who suggests calling people IN instead of OUT. I've always said the magnet is more powerful than the blowhard. 

That said, shaming corporations and politicians sometimes does create enough bad publicity for them that they correct what they are doing out of self-interest. 
  • Giving up
If we just stick our heads in the sand and pretend everything's fine when it's not instead of summoning the courage to speak when we need to, we lose our chance to make a difference. 

That said, silence can sometimes be a healing balm when the fire of conversation is too hot.

Getting back to WHY

I believe the answer abides in the 'why' that motivates us to send our messages. Do I need to rant my truth to satisfy my ego and need for control, no matter what the result? Or do I want to influence thought and actions to make the world a better place? If your 'why' makes you want to be an influencer for the good, engaged in ethical messaging, I invite you to consider the following 4 things you'll need to be successful:

1. TRUTH - Find out what is true. Don't just research the like-minded material you want to be true. Check out what the 'other side' is saying, and why they are saying it. Don't listen to morons or crooks, but do listen to people who see things differently.

2. COURAGE - Choose to be courageous. I believe we all know when we should speak truth, even and especially when it can cost us. Be willing to lose. You'll be in good company... Jesus, Gandhi, Martin Luther King. You probably won't be risking nearly that much.

3. UNDERSTANDING - Understand those to whom you are communicating. How can you craft your words or lyrics so your audience can best hear it and possibly be swayed by it? How can you be an example and encourage others to be both brave and wise?

4. LISTENING - After you share your view, really listen to the responses and replies. In Native American culture, there is a tradition called the Talking Circle. A 'talking stick' is passed to whoever wishes to talk; everyone else looks down and listens in silence. This creates the opportunity to discuss, challenge a viewpoint, learn new information and come to a much wiser consensus than voices yelling over each other to prove their point or blindly accepting the views of someone that demands total control and obedience. I'd love to see this concept take hold in more face-to-face meetings between people. It can be chats over webcam, sure, but unfortunately social media is too often where we speak without listening, and where we listen without verifying what is true. 

Thoughts for influencers with large platforms

When you have a lot of listeners, you have a lot of responsibility. Take it seriously. Whether you're an artist, a songwriter, public speaker, podcaster, minister, teacher, or business person, look closer at what you're sending out. Does it really match your value system? What does it illuminate or encourage? When you address dark issues or subjects, do you try to bring them into the light or some resolution? Again, ask yourself what you want your influence to do.  What kind of response do you want to get?

There are voices out there that are truly making a difference on a grand scale. One example I'm enthralled with today is Dolly Parton. She could just sing her country standards before her worshipping fans and enjoy her legendary career success. But instead, she courageously and empathetically decided to use her influence to champion causes, create charitable foundations and donate millions to worthy charities, including many that benefit the people of her beloved Appalachia. Dolly Parton's singing, speaking and songwriting voice has made a huge difference in so many lives for years. If you want to be inspired, check out Billboard magazine's timeline of Dolly's good deeds

Doing an internet search for celebrities who support charities will bring up long lists. But the world needs us all. Using our voices and platforms to make the world a better place is the only way our voices are truly and eternally valuable. 

Questions for YOU

Has this post challenged you or turned a lightbulb on about why and how you use your singing, speaking, and writing voice? How can we help each other? I believe, as the title of my friend Mark Elliott's single says, that as a community of good hearts 'we need to have a long talk'. If you'd like to comment, I hereby pass you the Talking Stick. I'll be listening.

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Monday, November 2, 2020

Gift Suggestions for Singers, Songwriters, Speakers and Musicians UPDATED 2020

...whatever it is, wrap it with love

Do you have singers, speakers and/or musicians on your gift list? Here are some suggestions, updated for 2020:

$25 or less...

$26 - 65

  • Posture trainer - a hunched back is terrible for health and for the voice! This looks like a great little product that gently prods you when you slouch.
  • Microphome foam microphone cleaner All of us should have a bottle of this.
  • A limited subscription to Netflix or boxed set of a TV series (for idle hours on the tour bus)
  • A music "fake book" or sheet music
  • Stands - music stand, mic stand, guitar stand
  • iPad stand holder
  • Tickets to a live concert event
  • mini-trampoline for core and wellness physical workouts all voices need.
  • A pair of HearFones for vocal practice and rehearsals.
  • 1/2 hour vocal lesson with me in-person, online or phone (I'll provide gift certificate)
  • A thumb drive for music tracks and vocal exercises
  • Mp3 speakers (some of the cheap ones sound fine and work with not only iPhones but also Android phones, tablets, laptops, etc.)
  • iPhone adapter (for newer iPhones that don't have a phone jack)

$65 - 250

  • A Digital Audio Workstation (DAW) such as ProTools, Studio One, Logic, Reaper.
  • My full UPDATED 6-disc Power, Path and Performance vocal training course - plus bonus 30 minute vocal lesson if ordered during December 2020 (email me for gift certificate). Please specify if you want the course on disc, or prefer the files on thumb drive.
  • Singing In The Studio course (the ultimate professional level course for any singer who will be recording vocals.) Note, the digital version is only $49.
  • Vocal Production Workshop (for engineers/producers who want to get the best vocals possible out of their singers)
  • A course by Bree Noble in music business such as "Profitable House Concerts" (she has several more)
  • Music marketing/promotion training by Rick Barker
  • backup hard drive for recording projects
  • A Cajon, Djembe or frame drum 
  • A new smartphone and/or data package
  • Membership(s) in NSAI (for songwriters), AFM (Musician's Union) or SAG/AFTRA (singer/actor union)
  • Photoshop Elements (An affordable version to create web banners, flyers, edit photos, all kinds of photo uses)
  • Masterwriter software 
  • Gym membership and/or personal trainer (for health, looks AND vocal stamina!)
  • Acting or dance lessons... Google classes and prices in your area, get recommendations.
  • Live performance coaching
  • A microphone - spend some time finding out what is needed. Will it be for stage performance or recording? For a speaker, say a lavalier mic? A podcast? You can get as expensive you want but a time-tested stage or rehearsal workhorse is the Shure SM58 (yes, an old standby but hey, I've use mine for decades!) or Sennheiser 835.
  • Mp3 player or speaker (and if you're dealing with the newer iPhone, you'll need wireless)
  • A small mixing board
  • A quality pair of headphones  
  • turntable (LP vinyl player - and hey, discriminating ears love vinyl!) 
  • An instrument case with wheels, or lightweight gig bag
  • One or two hours of vocal lessons with me in office or online (I'll provide gift certificate)
  • Portable CD player
  • Digital recorder 
  • Surprise your performer at a show with flowers!

$250 and up...

  • Mixing board
  • A camera, GoPro or camcorder
  • The Shure SM7B cardiod dynamic vocal microphone (I am now recording bgvs on this). 
  • An audio interface - simple, or complex like the Apollo (mine is the PC version) which comes with console and plugins.
  • A web or Facebook designer
  • DragonSpeak - Voice Recognition Software  (for songwriters and speech writers)
  • In-ear monitors
  • Stage clothes and/or bling
  • Wireless mic system
  • A photo session
  • CD graphics design
  • A music marketing seminar or bootcamp
  • Portable CD player
  • Funding for my vocal production and/or bgvs (contact me if you'd like to discuss)
  • Funding for video shoot
  • An instrument.. guitar, keyboard, mandolin, violin, etc
  • New road cases
  • A series of instrumental or vocal lessons (I'll be happy to provide a gift certificate)
  • Home studio recording gear
  • A live PA system
Gifts of Your time/expertise -
  • Host an outdoor socially distanced karaoke party or guitar pull!
  • Write song charts for your loved one.
  • Set them up on a social network they are new to.
  • Teach them to use some software you know they need.
  • Videotape them for TikTok, Instagram, Youtube Live or Facebook Live.
  • Do or better yet, teach them how to do some video or audio editing, such as with Audacity (free software).
  • Type up and organize their worktapes and lyrics, or convert them digitally and save.
  • Write a song in honor of them them (priceless!)
  • Commit to a number of hours of computer work... updating databases, uploading videos and pictures, social network friending, researching, etc. 
  • If you have a home studio, record a song demo or worktape on them.
  • Carve out special time to listen and critique their song, performance, speech.
  • Give them a day of complete voice rest! Do the talking for them.
  • Babysit or dog sit while they perform, record or attend someone else's show.
  • Attend their online show and invite friends!
  • Recommend their music or show on your social network sites

 Or...get creative. Give to a charity in your loved one's name, buy them a star, make a memory spending some time together in a group Zoom, Google Hangout or Skype meeting, or volunteering, helping safely deliver food or other goods to doorsteps of those in need!

Now: What do YOU want for Christmas? You can leave a hint here in the comments and then send a link to the post:) I intend to update this list every year... so bookmark this post and check back whenever it's gift giving time for you again!

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